What makes our marriages work is not just what we feel for our partners but our commitment and maturity in our attitudes. Truth be told - We would have no marriage standing if it were feelings. We stay in marriages because we make a decision and a commitment to be with our partners.
Feelings come and go but our maturity and commitment remains. Stop lying to yourselves. We will always meet people better looking, well shaped and doing better than our partners but, we can't leave to be with them each time we meet them. Even sex can be better out there - We just learn to have the best sex with our partners.
We stay with our partners because we chose to make them the best there is and committed to being with them through thick and thin despite the pressure of getting "Better" out there. That is why I say "Cheating is greatly linked to immaturity".
Pressure to go for better is always there. Both from men and women but, that's where you see and separate a child from men and women from girls.
Fools will chase and try to have every good looking man/woman they see but committed and mature people stick to who they make a decision to stay with. What we lack in most marriages today is commitment.
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